Monday 1 October 2012

Would you use a service like "Helping hand"?

FCE 1 students have already started with their first unit. The unit deals with teenagers' relationships. It might be a stereotype, but we often hear about the conflicts teenagers face because of their relationships with their parents, teachers, siblings or their peers. The first reading text in the book gives information about a special service a charity organization has launched: Helping Hand. This is a phone and chatting service teenagers can turn to to talk about their everyday problems. Laskenglish, however, wonders whether our teenagers would use that service if they could. So here's the question we would like you to answer:

  • Would you use a service like Helping Hand? Do you find it useful? Why or Why not?
Leave a comment with your opinion.

74 comments:

  1. Helping Hand I think is a good way to help people. In my case, before resorting to this association I prefer to ask for help from friends or family, since they are the ones that best know me.
    In my opinion I think this service is useful and fundamental. There are increasing problems among young people there, such as bullying, insults, jealousy, envy ... So if you have these problems and have no one for tell your problems go to the Helping Hand, this is the reason why I give to my opinion.

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  2. From my point of view, this organization has a very important role in our society. Without it, a lot of teenagers wouldn´t have the opportunity to solve their problems and find their way.
    That´s why I think it´s useful.

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  3. I would never use this tipe of aids because I doesn't think that I'm in good hands. I think that probably it can be useful for another people but I never go tu use it.

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  4. I don't think I'm going to use this kind of service, because I think that they are serious problems to talk with someone you don't know. I think some people can see like a help or like a friendly people you help.

    Ioritz

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  5. I wouldn't use a service like Helping Hand because I prefer to tell my anxieties and frustrations to my friends/family. Other people could find it more useful because they're too shy to speak with their friend about their problems. Perhaps, they think that their frinds will tease them if they tell them their problems. But that's not my case.

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  6. I would never use that kind of service because of several reasons. First of all, I think that all conflicts have to be solved between the family or friends. From my point of view, it is not a good idea to communicate your problems to strangers, I think it is enough to talk about those things with any friend or member of your family. They are the people who really want to help you, those who love you and want you to be happy. I understand that every human needs to work off, but there will always be someone you know that won't let you down. Because of all those things I have just mentioned, I wouldn't use a service like "Helping Hand".

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  7. I wouldn't use a service like Helping Hand because I prefer to speak about my problems with someone I know, for example, with friends. But I think this services are very useful for people which prefer speaking with other people instead of their relatives or friends.

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  8. I think that if I had a important problem, maybe I will use a service like Helping Hand.
    In my opinion is useful for the people that need help to solve their problems.

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  9. If I had any problem, first I would find someone who could help me, like my brother, my parents or any friends. But if I were alone, with anyone to talk about my problems, I would call to "Helping hand". I think this service is very useful for the people that is feeling lonely, or simply hasn't got anyone to talk about their problems. I thinks that would be a big help for them.

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  10. If I had a very big problem with my friends, I would use this service because I think that it would be very useful. Maybe, some teenagers wouldn`t solve all their problems but they would feel much better. So I think that, it is a fantastic service

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  11. Not,me I wouldn't use this service, although I find it very useful and helpful. But in my case I wouldn't feel safe and comfortable telling my personal issues to a strange person.

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  12. I think that I could use this service if I could have any problem and I wouldn’t know how to solve it. This idea I find it useful, because nowadays there are a lot of teenagers that have problems (with the friends, with the family, with the partner…) and sometimes is better to talk with someone that you don't know to help you giving a solution of this problem.

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  13. No. I will never use a service like Helping Hand, because I don`t have problems to tell to people that are working in this organisation. Even if I had a problem such us bulling... I will tell it to my parents or to the teacher.

    I find this organisation very useful for people that are having bad conditions because of classmates, or parents... People can tell the problems to the organisation and they will recive a solution for it, and anyone would know who it is because all of it is anonimous.

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  14. I´m not going to use this service because I don´t have this kind of problems. I think that is useful because some people need this service to speak about their problems and to stay in a frindly ear.

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  15. I think Helping Hand could be a good idea to work off about the problems that you could have with your friends, parents, etc,and I think it could be usefull for that; whereas, I would not use a service like this because of several reasons. On the one hand because I think it's better to solve problems between family or friends and not with an unknown person. And in the other hand because I think this service only can help us to work off and not to solve problems.

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  16. Nerea Ugartemendia18 September 2011 at 16:53

    I think that I would never use a service like Helping Hand because if you have a problem with somebody it's better to talk with that person instead with a stranger.
    If it's someone near you, it's important to talk with him or her instead of an unknown person because they are the people who really take care of you, in other words, that love you.

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  17. I had never use a service like helping hand and I will not use never because if I have some problem I speak about it hith my friends and I fell well with that. But I think that all the people is different and that this service will be very useful for some people.
    Koldo

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  18. I think that this is an useful service because whenever you've got a problem you feel much better if you can talk to someone about it, bu personally I wouldn't use it because i prefer to talk to my friends when i've got a problem.

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  19. I don't use a service like "Helping hand" because fortunately I don't need it. I don't want to say that I don't have any conflict with my parents, with teachers... However, I think that we must solve our problems, and if we can't solved it always we have friends for help. In my opinion the helping hand must be used in a extremity case.

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  20. No. Because I think that is better say my problems to one good friend.

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  21. In my opinion Helping hand is a good service becouse it can help to people that have problems, but personaly I wouldn't use it becouse I think that is better to told my problems to some of my friends becouse they know more about me than this service.

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  22. I think that isn't a useful service for me, because I'm not accustomed to use this type of service and I don't like to tell my feelings to strange people.
    Personally, I'd rather talk to my friends or to my mother to call to this service.

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  23. Although I don't use a service like helping hand, and I don´t think I´m goint to use it, I think taht is important to have services like those, because yo don´t when can a bully laugh at you, or when yor siblings can to make yor life a "bit" more difficult.

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  24. In my opinion, the service that offers "Helping Hand" is very useful for teenagers.
    On the one hand, is easier to express your problems and feelings to somebody unknown and who is professional.
    On the other hand, is comfortable to have this type of service in the school.
    Therefore, is a great idea because we have a choice to solve our problems in a practical way.

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  25. I think that this service is very useful for people with serious problems. Howerver I would never use it because I don´t like these things, I thing that they are not serious. Whereas I understand that many people can have serious problems and like they have not friends to speak with them they use this method. But in my case I prefer to talk with a friend.

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  26. No.I think that is better solve this problems with someone I know and no chating with one person that I never see. However it can be a good service for other people, but from my point of view is better to talk with my friends, parents or teachers.

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  27. I wouldn't use this kind of helping. Before use that I will ask for help from anyone around me. It can be useful but for some extremely cases, when you need help from a psychologist.

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  28. In my opinion this organisation that has been launched is a very useful alternative for people who have problems with their parents, siblings or just friends. However, I also think that the person who decides to turn to this organisation has to be quite brave because I don't think it'll be easy to tell problems to an unknown person.
    I've never had any kind of those problems yet, but I would like to have a friendly ear who could hear my problems if I had one of them someday.

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  29. I find it useful for people that have not anybody to talk, I think that it can be a help for them. But I think that I'm not going to use this service because I have friends ready to hear me.

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  30. I would not use that type of service, because I think it is better to talk about your problems with a person who knows you well. Althoug, can be interesting to talk with a strange person about yourself, because she or he is going to give you a impartial opinion. It is not going to happen with for example your friends.
    However, I think it can be usefull for the people that do not have anybody to talk about their problems. In their case, Helping Hand would improve their lives.

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  31. I have never used a service like "Helping hand", because personally,I prefer to tell my problems to known people like my friends or my parents. However, I think that it is a good solution to help teenagers who have problems in different areas as in the school, in their houses or in the street, and that they don´t have anybody to tell it.

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  32. From my point of view, I think that this kind of service are very useful for people witch prefer speaking about their problems instead of their friends. But I'm not going to use because I prefer speak about my problems with my family or friends.

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  33. Is practic to someone that has got problems at home, at school or in other places. But I think that is better to talk about your problems to someone near you.

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  34. Personally, I think that is an useful service but what I have to admit is that I wouldn't use it because vefore contacting with "Helping Hand" I would talk with my friends or my parents, I mean, with people who really know me.

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  35. I think I would never use this king of services like the Helping Hang but it is very useful for the people that doesn't have any other person to hear you.

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  36. From my point of view, Helping Hand is a useful service because could help to people solve their problems. But I prefer to tell my conflits, problems.. to my friends or to my parents before that tell to a strange people because I have confidence with the people that are around my.

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  37. I think "Helping Hand" is a very good service for people who has a very strong problem and don't find anybody to telled. Personally, I prefer speak about my problems with people that I have closer like parents, friends...

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  38. Front my point of view,this type of services like "Helping hand" is good to the people that need to talk about their problems, but I wouldn´t use this service because if I have to speek with someone I speek with my parents or with my friends.

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  39. I think that "Helping Hand" could be an interesting way to help people that don't have any friend, familiar, teacher to speak about their problems. Personally, I can say that I'm not going to use this service, because nowadays, I have friends to help me.

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  40. I have never use that service, because if I have some problems always I speak about that with my friend or family but I think that is a good service for people that haven't persons that understand and who listen them.

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  41. Well!! Firstly I have to say that this type of method is very usefull. However, personally I think that I would never use it. But all this depends on the moment, that is to say, if the problem that I have is so big or problematic maybe I would use it but as I said before in a very "critical" situaton. But well I think that I wouldn't use it because I am like this.

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  42. It can be useful, but I wouldn´t use this type of help because I prefer to talk to my friends about my problems.

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  43. In my opinion "Helping hand" is an interesting method to listen the teenagers problems and help them to feel better but I think that I'm not going to use it because I prefer to speak my friends.

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  44. In my opinion, this type of organizations are very usefulls. Because nowadays teenagers has got a lot of problems in the society so is a very good idea create a project like Helping Hands to give an aid to this teenagers. Personally I wouldn´t use it because if in the case of have a problem I have people that is ready to hear me like friends or family for example but to the people that really needs this type of help I think that is brainchild.

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  45. In my opinion, I think that it could be a very useful service for that people that have those types of problems. Any type of chatting with another person is going to be good always, but personally, I prefer to tell my everyday problems to my friends, because I know that they are going to help me.

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  46. No. I think that it isn't useful. If I had any problem I would ask help to my friends or my parents. These problems are better to solve with someone you really know.

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  47. I think that, I will never use this type of services for several reasons. Fortunately, at this moment I have much people around me to help me when I have some problems or anxietis. But, I haven't have any issues yet so I feel happy.
    However, it can be a very useful service for people who are lonely or they are reserved. This kind of people don't use to tell their problems, and if they have a sympathetic listener who is a stranger I think that they're going to explain their issues easier.
    So if you have problems, call them!

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  48. No. I think it's a good idea and very useful for people who need help. But I wouldn't use a service like this. If I had any problem I prefer to talk about with someone I know, such as family, friends, etc.

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  50. I think that helping hand is a good idea for those teenagers that have issues in school, at home, with alcohol, smoking.. It´s a good oportunity if you feel bad frequently and if you can't live happy.

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  51. No, I think that I'm not going to use these service because I have a lot of friends who can help me. I think that it can be a good concep the helping hand because if you are alone and if you have any kind of problems yo can tell to a sympathetic listener.

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  52. I think that service like Helping Hand is necesary, especially for the people that is very shi to tell their problems. In my case, I wouldn´t use this service, because I prefere to tell my probles to my friens or to nobody, never to a person that I don´t know who is.

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  53. I think that "Helping Hand" is a good service to speak with someone unknown about your problems and feel better. However, I also think that is better to sort out your problems with your family and friends and not with a phone service.

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  54. I think that,probably I speak about my problems with my family or friends,butwhen I have very big problem, I use that service. I think that this service is very useful wiht the people to feel along.

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  55. I think that Helping Hand is a good thing,but I would prefer to tell my issues to my friends or to my parents,because I think that telling your problems to a stranger isn't safe.So I wouldn't use this service.

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  56. In my case, I think that I will never use this service because fortunately I have people to talk: friends, family...so I don't need "helping hand". but in my opinion, this service is a very good idea. A lot of teenagers have problems, and they havn't any person to talk and to unburden, so they need some people or this service to encoruge and to feel well. So would be very useful.

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  57. In my opinion this organization, could be useful for teenagers who need help.Fortunetely I don`t have any of this problems and I suposse that I will never have.But I also think that it isn`t a very good idea because you can feel shamed or embarrased.

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  58. I don´t use helping hand but I think that it is a good iniciative to help people that haven´t noboody around them. I don´t use this system that helps people because I think that I have people around me, can be friends or family, that can help me when maybe I am bad about something, but I would prefer say to my friends before to contact with my family.

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  59. I have never used this service because I didn´t need it. From my point of view, this service could help people who needs somebody to hear his problems. But I think there a lot of doctors and psychologists to help people when his problems are very big. I think if I ever have a big problem, I would go to a specialist.

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  60. In my opinion, services like "Helping Hand" are necessaries, because, every body says that if you have a problem, you can ask for help to your parents or friends, but some persons haven´t got frinds or they are too much shy. I think that this service is a good idea to solve the problems of that persons.

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  61. no I wouldn´t use that service but I think it is a very good good idea for people who need help for the problems of the school, problems with friends...And is very useful.People are very shameful and they don´t talk with friends and that service is perfect for that people, beacause people who didn´t know they give an advice.

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  62. I would never use that kind of service but in my opinion could be important because sometimes is better to talk with someone that you don't know. I never have a problem to talk with the people that are around me.

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  63. I would not use this way because I prefer speaking about my problems with someone that I have confidence, friends for example. I find this service very useful to people that prefer speaking about problems with a strange person because he feel shy with their friends, have not got friends...etc.

    In my opinion, it is important to exist this type of services for people that I mentioned, although I will never use it.

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  64. I dont think that "Helping Hand" is a very usefull service. I wouldnt use this service because I think that the problems are to speak with friends or parents, because they are near you and only they can help you

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  65. I wouldn´t use this because I never have problems whith my fiends.I think that this service is very useful because you talk about your problems to an anonymous person.

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  66. In my opinion, this service isn´t very good idea because I think that to solve problems is better to ask help to someone you know because the problems are private things.So, I wouldn´t use a service like a "Helping Hand" because when I have a problem I prefer to talk to one person who I have a confidence, for example: my friends, my parents...

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  67. In my opinion, this kind of services are very good ideas, because like this, you can help to people with small probles in their daily life. Also I must to say that I won´t use this service, because if I have any problem I prefer to speak with my family or friends. This people know me better than any other person.

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  68. I wouldn`t use this type of service because I think that it`s better to tell your problem to your friends or to your family.
    It can be useful for the people that have important problems.

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  69. I think that I wouldn´t use a service like Helping Hand. In my case, I don´t find useful because I prefer to talk with my friends that with a person that I don´t know who is. But it can be useful for person that don´t like to speak his/her problem to any person who know of he/she.

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  70. I don`t need this type of services. If I have some problems, I would tell it to my friends or my parents. It can be useful for the people that don`t have friends or someone to tell the problem.

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  71. I think that I won’t use this service to solve the problems. I would prefer to solve all the problems with the right person like family or friends. This service could be useful to person who don’t dare to solve their problem or to person who wouldn’t have the opportunity to solve their problems. So they would be free if they use this service to solve their problems.

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  72. I think that is an useful service for those people that have not someone such as friends or parents to talk about their personal problems or for those one that is easier to talk about this with someone who is professionally prepared to speak with all the people.

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  73. In my opinion, I think that Helping Hand is a good service, but I would prefer to say my issues to my friends and to my family because with this service you don´t know who is the person that you tell te problems.

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  74. In my case,I have never used this type of services but I think that it can be very useful because some people do not have a friendly ear.So it can be a good idea to turn to those services.Nevertheless ,I hope that I won´t have to use it.

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